Gorgeous - Life 101 Lecture

Looks are skin deep, and we all have some aspect of our physicality that we aren't especially fond of. No body is perfect. Attractiveness is based on something more than just your outer shell. True beauty comes from a place inside of you. The core of your being is unique, and it shines with all the traits that make up who you are. Seeing this in people is what inspires our attraction. Fear of being shunned for our own particularities creates within our consciousness a need to shield ourselves from one another. It is due to our own inabilities to accept ourselves for what we are that we fail to show one another who we really are. We get caught behind concepts that muddle our understanding of what appeals to our senses. We all have parts of our bodies that we would like to change. While some of these deviations are temporary and can be changed in time, some of them are just how we are.

Some people were born to be professionally good looking, others are made for other purposes. The girl inside the magazine might not look like you, but she was the ideal for the message the company wanted to send out. The boy on the poster in the store doesn't resemble the guy you see in the mirror, but what does that have to do with you anyway? You were made to fill a particular role in this great big experiment called Life. The traits that you have that make you unique are the traits that make you special and necessary. Our physical manifestation is the illustration of our own specific abilities. If you are good at lifting and carrying, you most likely will be blessed with muscles and a strong sturdy bone structure. If you were made for cuddling you will probably be pillowy. If you were made for getaway, you will be small and fast. If you are made to fit into small places you will probably have amazing flexibility in both your muscles and your joints. If you are thin and waify, there is a reason for it.

Honestly, we all have conditions for the physical make up of the people we are attracted to. This stems from our own understanding of the physical manifestation of traits. Your look is based both on genetic traits and mental outlook. Let's say you like Redhead's. This means that deep down you want a different kind of girl, a fun loving, gentle, sweet and spicy kind of love. Or you are only interested in blonde-haired, blue eyed boys. You are looking for a guy with clear vision who will be honest, direct, youthful, kind hearted, and who likes daylight. We are always advertising ourselves to one another. This goes to show general passer-by-ers what your abilities are. When that moment comes when only you are needed for one certain goal, the community can grab you by the arm and take you to where you need to be. But when you cannot be honest with yourself, or you hide yourself from everyone else, no one will be able to look past your armor to see if you are their hero. If you can't display yourself for who you really are, then you might get dragged into slaying dragons, even though the closest you ever got to fire was walking by the local forge on your way to the library. If you are the hero and you can walk on by and shit goes wrong because no one let you knew you were needed, then you have failed yourself, your destiny, and the poor souls who needed you.

Luckily, its not too late. You know what you are best at. If you find a way to flourish within your own talents then before you know it, you will find your niche in this world. So what are you good at? Where can that be best utilized? What can you do that benefits your own sense of self worth? Take a good long look at yourself. Look to your childhood, remember the kind words of praise you have been given. Be honest with yourself about the traits you have that enable you to excel in particular fields. Also take some time to look into your inabilities. These aren't your failings, just things that are set aside for other people to utilize. The kid down the street is Amazing at lacrosse while the girl next door is brilliant with plants and the old lady in the next town over is the best dog trainer in this area. That doesn't belittle your abilities, it illustrates the lack of need in these fields. If you have similar interests then go with them to share ideas. If your plan is completely different, seek out those like you, go to where you know you need to go. On your way let your own glory shine out. It will open the doors to your destination. Just as you are made to fulfill a specific need, that specific need must be filled. But if the niche doesn't know you exist, how can it be filled?
When you express yourself in your own specific ability you will find it easier to open yourself up to the world around you. Satisfying yourself by making daily accomplishments will transcend physical form to manifest itself outside of you. Doing what is natural to you will show itself as joy overflowing and bubbling out. Your own happiness, teamed with a positive sense of self worth and gratefulness for doing your best will spread out around you like ripples on a pond. In the process of feeling good about yourself will infect anyone around you. And if you catch just the right person, at just the right time, you might be hand carried to your particular destination.

Real Beauty is True Honesty with yourself. Acceptance of your own abilities will give you strength. Through Acceptance you will find beauty in yourself and others. As you are able to see yourself and others we will all have an easier time seeing where we need to go. People who are living the life they were born to live are sexy. You are especially Gorgeous in your own special way. Don't hide away anymore. Bring your talents out into the light, expect the very best of yourself, go out dressed in your brilliance. if it all works out: enjoy the ride home.