Sex - Life 101 Lecture

I am going to be frank. Lets face it, we were built for sex. We evolved to experience joy and ecstasy in the process. We are concerned with "getting off" and "feeling good." We don't have sex for having children, not right away anyway. Sex is pleasure, sex is exciting, sex is healing.

So what exactly is sex? It is as simple as putting your member in or around someone else's? Thats easy enough go with. Sex feels good, has the ability to make good, but is generally looked down on in a bad light. Why? The act in itself has risks. There is the possibility of contracting an STD, or getting pregnant too soon. But in truth, sex is seen as as threat due to fact that most of us don't have a clue what we are doing. Sharing your body with someone else should be a special, private expression of your love. The rewards that come with good sex often are not achievable until the consenting parties have gotten close enough personally to do more than slam against one another. I won't deny that sometimes sex has a way of transcending that barrier and opening people up, but if you don't have a meaningful relationship, there is the chance that you will get emotionally harmed by engaging in intercourse.
Sex without meaning just holds you up so it can drop you. Its not that it means to. When you find yourself in a situation where you connect with a person only through their bodies, there is a sheepish "I'm Sorry" mentality teaming with a "I hope this was worth it," ideal nagging at the back of your head. Starting a relationship after putting out is not the best plan of action. They are not always going to fail, but you start out with a burden from the beginning. You come into it with baggage, harboring feelings of being taken advantage of. The whole relationship you are playing catch up, and trying to find out where it is you belong. Which then leads to more trouble.

Let's have some definitions now, so we all know what the different kinds of intercourse are.

Fucking - The clinical and practical experimentation of the physical action that makes up sex, mostly used for personal entertainment . Also Banging.

Sex - Satisfying action composed of brining together at least two parties for the single purpose of exercising genital organs for inter-personal pleasure. The real purpose of sex is to bring about the reproduction of another human creature. Also Fornication.

Love Making - The act of sex teamed with opening your soul to the other party, in hopes that the deepest parts of yourself can touch and merge with the deepest parts of your partner. It is the spiritual addition to the physical action, so that all parts of you are experiencing one another completely.

Fucking is the most common form of intercourse. Even long standing couples fall victim to Fucking bouts. If one of you isn't in the mood, or if you are putting out without caring about your partner, you will most likely not achieve anything above this level. Sex is a good goal to achieve. There is more likely hood that both partners will get some satiation from it. Love Making is the ideal method, and if often the one we are looking for, regardless that we don't do what is needed to achieve it. Love Making only comes after many shared experiences, each one chipping away at the stone armor we hide behind until it is far enough gone that we can see into one another.

What exactly are we looking for from sex?
All we really want as creatures on this planet is something we can be apart of. Sharing together in the closest physical action we can perform really puts us inside of something. In the process of intercourse we are part of something greater, something valuable, something precious. If we are lonely, it is through sex that we can let go of that part of ourselves. What sex brings to us is a sense of connection, a feeling of completion, and the knowledge that we are no longer alone. Through the act we are given the opportunity to learn ourselves while we release all of the tensions we have been holding onto. In that purest moment of no control we are able to see into our own selves while the world disappears behind the brightest of lights that burn into our closed eyes. We connect with the highest power above, the force that lives within all of us engulfs us in a mandala of life light. As it finds and touches us we are renewed. We touch one another, we touch the creator, and we experience the greatest life force of all.

Sex and Love
The fastest, most secure way to a woman's Heart is through her orgasm. Men find a strong sense of achievement after pleasuring his partner in this way. Due to the male member being on the outside of his body, it is easy for him to ejaculate. As for the male orgasm, as it is true for the female orgasm, it is a whole body affair. However, since the feeling mechanism is all in one place, it is easier for him to explode. The Female orgasm is much harder to achieve. Our sensitive parts are in a few places. The build takes time and work. What comes with that release is something genuinely beautiful. Once achieved your mate will hold you in higher regards. Love will be manifested in the deepest recesses of their being, which in turn creates beauty that is open for the world to see. This is why you do it in close confines, so that secret can be yours alone. In truth one's personal beauty is something they long to share with one person alone.

Successful Sex
There is no single plan or action that will give you the benefits of good sex every time. Sometimes what we want is a hard fast pounding. Other times we prefer a nice clean ejaculation. Basically, what you want out of sex, and getting it, is exactly what makes it successful. Going into it knowing what you want as well as being willing to let your partner experience what he or she wants is a good equation for heading down the path to physical fulfillment. There is going to have to be a give and take in culminating bodies, or else there is the possibility of your partner feeling used if he or she is not being given something from the exchange. Being honest with one another before beginning is a great way to find out what direction to head in in order to get the very most out of it.

If you are planning to lay down with someone, make sure you are doing it with someone who means something to you. If they mean something to you, try your best to be kind and gentle. Take your time, remember what it is you are going for. You might want to make your partner cum, but you should be thinking about how you feel for them, how you feel with them, and what putting yourself so close to them really means to you. Your heart deserves the chance to say hello to the life source that makes us tick. Your body deserves the chance to feel completely free and light. Your mind deserves the knowledge that you aren't alone. There is no need to rush into something like this which is a process that takes time and patience. Be prepared to let go of the barriers you hide behind so you both can get the most out of the encounter. Sex is special. Let's keep it that way.